Friday, 01 February 2008

• The Best Gift A CODA Made For Her Parents

  Many years ago while I am still a novice ASL signer, I became good friends with two ASL interpreters, both hearing. They taught me a lot about ASL. These two friends took me to ASL Interpreter workshops in the Deep South where I learned more about ASL and Deaf Culture.

  One of the interpreters, I’ll call her Gina, grew up with Deaf Parents in the Deep South. Back then in 1950’s, ASL was considered unacceptable and hearing children were not exposed to ASL. Out of love and concern for their hearing children, her Deaf parents talked orally to the kids. At the beginning when the children were small, the oral communication went smoothly. But as the they grew older and their language became more complex, strains in the communication occurred more often.  Many times Gina, in frustration, watched her parents signing to their Deaf friends, wishing she knows ASL so she can communicate freely with them, too.  However, she dutifully respected her parents’ firm desire to keep their communication oral only.

  As the years progressed, Gina moved away, got married and had children. There was a deaf program in her church. Fascinated, she watched the interpreter doing her job at the front of the pews. Determined, she took ASL classes. Much to her surprise, she learned very quickly, having concluded that she must have already learned the signs subconsciously while watching the Deaf people converse around her during her growing up years. While she practiced sign language with the local Deaf folks, she never spilled the words to her parents…. She practiced and became fluent.

  Then one day, Gina went to visit her parents. There were other Deaf friends visiting and she watched them converse in ASL, as usual, not saying anything. A deaf person mentioned something to Gina in ASL and she responded in ASL. They struck a conversation in ASL

  Across the room, her dad suddenly stopped signing and turned around, gawking at her in surprise. Slowly he arose from his chair and walked across the room to where she was sitting. “you can sign?” he asked.  She nodded, smiling. With a look of amazement and pure joy, he hugged her.

  It was the best gift she could give to her Deaf Parents: ASL, their language.

  Commentary: As a result of her learning ASL, she and her parents became even closer.  She became one of the best ASL interpreters I’ve worked with, signing like a native ASL user.

  I wiped tears when she told me this story. I’m a sucker for stories with happy endings :)  MZ

   

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